“There comes a time in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, write another book or simply close it.”
— Shannon L. Alder“Hide yourself in God, so when a man wants to find you he will have to go there first.”
— Shannon L. Alder“Sensitive people usually love deeply and hate deeply. They don't know any other way to live than by extremes because thier emotional theromastat is broken.”
— Shannon L. Alder“There is no perfection, only beautiful versions of brokenness.”
— Shannon L. Alder“Life always begins with one step outside of your comfort zone.”
— Shannon L. Alder“People who fit don’t seek. The seekers are those that don’t fit.”
— Shannon L. Alder“Somewhere between love and hate lies confusion, misunderstanding and desperate hope.”
— Shannon L. Alder“The true definition of mental illness is when the majority of your time is spent in the past or future, but rarely living in the realism of NOW.”
— Shannon L. Alder“Some stories have to be written because no one would believe the absurdity of it all.”
— Shannon L. Alder“Beauty is not who you are on the outside, it is the wisdom and time you gave away to save another struggling soul like you.”
— Shannon L. Alder“God created philosophy for all the intellects that got bored of hearing the same bible stories every Sunday.”
— Shannon L. Alder“You can’t selectively numb your anger, any more than you can turn off all lights in a room, and still expect to see the light.”
— Shannon L. Alder“I would fight every angel between us until God said, Yes.”
— Shannon L. Alder“The most confused you will ever get is when you try to convince your heart and spirit of something your mind knows is a lie.”
— Shannon L. Alder“Lies don't end relationships the truth does.”
— Shannon L. Alder“Words don’t have the power to hurt you, unless that person meant more to you than you are willing to confess.”
— Shannon L. Alder“No boundary or barrier surrounds the heart of a person that loves their self and others.”
— Shannon L. Alder“In a narcissist's world you are not their one and only. You are an extension of that person and last place in their mind, while they secure back up narcissistic supply.”
— Shannon L. Alder“It is not until you change your identity to match your life blueprint that you will understand why everything in the past never worked.”
— Shannon L. Alder“The best kind of happiness is a habit you're passionate about.”
— Shannon L. Alder“Every broken heart has screamed at one time or another: Why can't you see who I truly am?”
— Shannon L. Alder“When you don’t have honesty in love then there is no communication. Honesty is improvisation of the heart; anything less is a well thought out and rehearsed script.”
— Shannon L. AlderForgiving doesn’t erase the memory of trauma; it transforms its power to hold you hostage.
— Shannon L. Alder“A best friend is the only one that walks into your life when the world has walked out.”
— Shannon l. Alder